I've used Extempore and GRACE, the cross-platform GUI for Common Music. I am a Lisper so these tick that box. I always wanted to use Opusmodus, and I think I will now. It has great tutorials and documentation and seems to have matured nicely. It has high-concept functions for composing compared with some of the others that require for you to build those functions. I'm not sure how it will compare with Extempore's live coding abilities.
[0]: http://impromptu.moso.com.au/index.html
[1]: https://vimeo.com/2579694
[2]: https://extemporelang.github.io/