Surgery on males for gynecomastia IS classified as a "gender affirming surgery" in the statistics regardless of what you, personally, think.

So, when you see statistics about this, know that that particular operation is almost all of the cases.

Calling trans men "distraught girls" is just pure transphobia.

Being “distraught” is pretty much inherent to being trans.

It’s the feeling that you are in the “wrong body”. That’s going to be distressing to anyone.